Knowing what you should do is not the same as being able to do it while your heart is going.
Today the room runs a response desk: two of you sit at the front, a situation is read out, and you get sixty seconds, out loud, to say what happens next and in what order. Everyone else scores that response against the same four things. Nobody gets marked as a person; it is the response that gets scored.
Every situation you will hear is invented, so nothing that has happened to anyone in this room goes near the desk.
Harmful situations online look different from each other: a mean message, a photo shared without permission, a stranger asking for details, an account pretending to be you. What they have in common is that there is always a next move, and you do not have to make it alone.
These are the four things the class listens for in every response at the desk:
Three of those four can happen in any order and still work. One cannot. Listen for which one, because it is the thing most responses today will get wrong.
Pairs take the desk in turn. The teacher reads a card. You get sixty seconds, out loud, to say what happens next and in what order.
You are the scorers. For each response, mark the four criteria on the board in your notes: did not engage, evidence before blocking, used the tools, told someone who can act. One tick or one cross each. No names and no score for the pair, because you are scoring the response.
Start with what you would not do. That is a real answer and it usually unlocks the rest.
Now score the desk as a whole. Not any one pair, but this class's responses, all of them together.
For each of the four criteria, agree where the room landed: not yet, nearly, or there. Every one that is not at there needs a line saying what was actually missing, in your own words.
Put the four moves in the order this class is going to use. One of them has to come before another or it does not work at all. Say which, and why.
Last thing: for the next card that comes in, name who you would tell, a person or a route that can actually do something, not just "an adult".
Look at the four scores and the order you locked.
You cannot control what arrives. You can control what you do in the next sixty seconds, and today you found out what that actually sounds like under a clock.
The order is not fussiness. Block first and the evidence can go with it, and then the person trying to help you has nothing to work with. Keep it, then block, then tell someone who can act.
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